Well I think I got this narrowed down pretty good. Output side of the fuse block has 2 dk blue wires. These both go about 2.5 foot from the turn/backup lamp fuse right to the positive side of the flasher relay in the convienence center just on the inside of the firewall behind the bulkhead plug. With the 3 fuses removed from the 3 circuits on this bus so I can do an ohm check, I get continuity 0.000 from the fuse to the plus side of the flasher relay plug as expected. I also get continuity 0.000 from the same blue wires when I jump the probe to a body ground.
When I do the same with the ground side of the flasher plug, I get continuity to ground, and also continuity to the dk blue wires.
The purple load wire from the flasher to the turn signal switch has continuity from end to end, but not wire to ground. Ditto for the pink switched feed to the bus bar on the fuse box.
All that being said, I strongly believe I have found my dead short. The blue power feed wires to the relay i believe are also a dead short to the ground wiring in the dash. This is why the other 2 fuses arent popping on the same bus, they arent shorted to ground, and neither is the feed wire going in.
About a 2.5' run of wiring I will have to unwrap all the way to the convenience center and sort thru while on my back under the dash. Will be removing the "inconviencence" center from the firewall to get a look behind it. I have some old wire harnesses from a truck I junked. I think I will make and run some fused jumper wires with male and female spades to the relay itself not connected to the "inconvenience" center and test to see if my theory is correct and I can get the signals to work before unwrapping all of it.
So essentially to make a long story "short" no pun intended, I think I electrically "found it" but physically have to now "find it".
I am betting this pinched wire deal is the source of the random turn signal fuse popping over the last 18 years or so of my 26 years of ownership. It's now finally become a hard short to ground. If those blue wires dont go to anything else but the signal relay like the schematic shows, I may even just wire the relay out of the convenience center and let it dangle under the dash like the flasher relay does.