Check, double check, and then triple check your distributor and then even if you think your right, swap it 180* to just make sure. I've talked to a lot of people who swear on their life that the dizzy is in the right place and they fight it and fight it until they're pulling their hair out and looking for C4 to make the problem go away. They finally check it one more time and turn it 180 and she fires up.
However this doesn't explain the first set of issues you ran into when you did the exhaust. If you have fuel, you have air, and you have spark, then your issue is most likely timing. Either from your distributor or your cam shaft. Have you pulled the valve covers lately? Perhaps make sure all of your valves are opening and closing?