someotherguy
Truly Awesome
My "out" is that one of the mistresses in the garage getting attention is often her vehicle. She doesn't mess with me about any of it really, because one way or another it benefits her. It's either my driver or hers, or the "fun" vehicle we go out in (currently the 300.)I hear ya. My wife gets a little jealous when I spend too much time in the shop. It's a balancing act. She calls all my junk I work on my mistresses. I must be lucky or just overwhelmed then because I have several of them all different brands including my GMT. She does tell me she prefers me in the shop to going to the bar lol.
We do date night every friday. We have a jar full of folded pieces of paper of all the restaurants we like. Every friday she picks a paper, I pick a paper. From there we pick one out of those 2. The one we dont pick goes back in the jar. The one we do pick goes in a second jar. This eliminates the places she likes that are called "I dont know," and "I dont care". Being chivalrous, I let her pick which one of the 2 she wants to go to every friday.
During the covid scare, there were a couple places doing take out, and I did covid date night in my shop. I strung up some string lights, got the folding card table, table cloth, oil lamp, some special dishes for the occasion, and used laminated wiring schematics for placemats. She really appreciated the efforts I went through. This fall, I will do that again. Sometimes it's about doing even small stuff for them when they least expect it.
Going out for dinner is a big thing for us on my off nights, and the lockdowns made that impossible. A few of our favorites started doing curbside and we'd make movie night out of it at the coffee table in front of the TV, religiously, every week. I don't have cable attached to the TV so it's always a movie/series, whether dvd or prime, etc. Glasses still clink for a "¡salud!" before we begin (she quit drinking nearly 3 years ago, I still do.)
Now that everything's back open, the places that survived, anyway.. we're back to going out a couple times a week but usually stay home for one night and do the coffee table thing.
The ladies like being spoiled, even if they're not materialistic. I'm blessed to have a wife that isn't. Not the jealous type, either. She knows I'm hooked - have been since we were about 13!
Richard