Not all fasteners are created equal. A high stress component like a rocker stud needs good hardware. ARP fasteners comes to mind. Stay away from cheap junk.
The rocker arms, are they self aligning? I'm not seeing guide plates. If not self aligning they are moving all over the place with the engine running and could be creating some nasty harmonics, and therefore, the breakage.
Edit, The pushrod tip looks pretty hammered. You might want to look at the cam lobe and lifter to make sure it's not hammered as well.
One other thing I'm looking at here is how the valve spring sits under the retainer. The bottom side of the top retainer should have a step/register that centers the valve spring under the retainer. 2 of the 3 springs I see look off center as if the spring is not located or it has the wrong retainers(too small) for those springs. The bottom side spring pocket in the head looks like it was cut for a 1.4-1.5 spring but it looks like it's a 1.26 sitting on a shim. Maybe it's located on the inner diameter of the spring but a lot times you see the spring in a spring cup that centers the spring to the guide, Again, a spring walking around can create a lot of vibration/harmonics in the valvetrain. It's a pretty beefy looking spring but needs the right set up. It's best to source springs and retainer from the same manufacturer.
I don't think there self aligning. Do I get a magnet and pull the lobe off? Which part the lifter?