Depends on what you're driving style is.
How heavy is that right foot of yours?
I've broken drive line parts with a slightly modded V6.
With some 'real' horsepower & enough abuse, you will soon find the weak spots. Axles, diff. carriers, u-joints, transmissions, engine/tranny mounts, leaf springs, etc., are all subject to breakage.
For a 4X4, you really don't need a high-winding screamer. More like something that makes power in the lower to mid range of the rpm's. Think...TORQUE!
Check the specs closely of the engines you consider. See in what range that the power is made.
There's lots more guys here that know engines better than me, & I'm sure that there are just as many opinions. Just don't go too crazy, because one thing leads to another, &/or you'll have to build the rest of the drive-train up to be able to handle a balls-to-the-wall monster.
Personally, I wouldn't go much more than 400hp, especially if it's your DD. Your mpg. is gonna suffer!