Slight breakthrough.
Fixed the near overhear issue (running at 240-250 on any trip), now it's running 150-200 interstate with the AC on, cooler than that anywhere else. Yesterday was a little cooler here and it rode around 150-160 and the truck did not shake at all. Cruise control, gassing it, letting off, did not shake. Today was hot and it got up to around 200 and I got the shake but it was much less violent and much shorter. I got it for sure when shifting gears on the interstate. Does this make any sense or was it just good luck?