Well they are throwing up the white flag. They are transferring it to another shop in the area (actually was right next to my old house...weird), they say there is a guy there that is an electrical expert and a retired GM tech who was with GM from 1985 until recently. They say his specialty is finding electrical gremlins in wires, but he also knows a ton about these trucks too. Lets hope he can find it. The shop is only putting me out of $200 for 3 solid weeks of diagnostics. One of the guys that works there drives a truck just like mine, and they even took his truck apart and swapped some parts in and out, to no avail. Oh and they are making the transfer for me. That sh*t is a pain in the ass in Birmingham, so I said that was their job haha.
It is interesting that they discovered that when it does stall when warm and is hard to crank there is NO fuel AND NO spark. Tells me wiring gremlin if the ICM and ECM is good. Though I did leave some notes with them to give to the new shop tomorrow after some research on google and FSC today.
I can't find a definitive answer on if the oil pressure sending unit communicates with the ECM in a way that can cause it. I have read that on newer trucks if the sending unit senses less than 4 PSI it tells the ECM to cut fuel and spark (sound familiar?), but I can't verify that the ECM in my '92 is that smart.
Also, there is a fusible link in the transmission tunnel that is wired between the battery wiring harness on the firewall and the ECM that can be prone to corrosion and cause intermittent problems I have discovered. I left that note, but that is the type of thing this guy is supposedly a master at diagnosing. We shall see.