Step 1 remove headers
Step 2 grind down the sloppy weld they left on the mating surface in the manufacturing of the headers.
Step 3 buy cheap "drop on" gaskets. Good ol' tin colored drop on gaskets.
Step 4 clean head surface perfectly with "cookie wheel"
Step 5 Brakleen all surfaces
Step 6 use HIGH TEMP RED rtv silicone on your header surface. make a 1/8inch tall bead all around it. smear nice and pretty with finger, without lifting your finger off till your done, so you don't make bubbles.
Step 7 use silicone on heads, now.
Step 8 with silicone still wet, put two bolts through header and install it with gasket smeared to the HEADER, laying on the RTV, inline with the bolts so it is lined up.
Step 9 using 3/8 standard header bolts (buy them from oreilly auto parts) tighten in a middle to outer pattern. try not to fumble around too much with the silicone when you do this
Be sure when you tighten, to hold your finger from the gasket lifting up. They sometimes lift when tightened.
Use ANTI SIEZE on your header bolts. This will prevent them from vibrating out, and also seizing and corroding. LOCTITE however useful at times, will not work for this. You can start your engine immediately when your done. but do NOT hit the throttle. let it idle till the engine is warm, (195 degrees warm) then shut it off. When your temp comes down to room temperature (not warm enough to show up on your guage) you are completely done.
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