With regards to the Where to put the oil in the system. The oil should only be added to the compressor. Nothing else. In a properly functioning system, the refrigerant and the oil mix but in the compressor the oil is separated from the refrigerant, and the oil is left behind to lubricate the compressor. Of course, all the oil is not separated from the refrigerant, however, there is only negligible amounts of oil flowing throughout the system.
Side note, not really all that important. During long periods of sitting time of the vehicle, 3, 4, 5 months or more, oil and refrigerant migrate to the coldest part of the system. If the compressor is mounted low this would be the evaporator; and if the compressor is mounted high, this would be the compressor. So when the vehicle is running and taken out of hibernation, low-mounted compressors tend to blow up, because there is no oil in the compressor, and it's basically dry stating the pump.