Update,
Installed the new trans and converter, drove it easy for 8 miles to make sure it shifted right, then decided to get on it just a little from a dig, and once it went into 4th, I eased back into it and it revved up as if it was in neutral. Frustrated, I pulled the trans and converter back out, and diagnosed it as either the converter or the input drum. The converter turned out okay, so I made the trip up to Pennsylvania to make the trans right. Upon disassembling, we found that the 4L79 input drum had cracked due to a bad casting.
Fast foward a few weeks, and now I have the trans back and in, and have over 500 miles on the transmission! I'm absolutely loving how it shifts and performs. I will be having 3" exhaust installed next week since my 2.5" exhaust wouldn't clear the new pan, so its open headers for now! I just pray it holds together for a long time from here on out.
I've accomplished my goal of having a 4wd SUV that will run a faster 1/4 mile than gen 5 Camaro SS', 1st gen Coyote Mustang GTs, ans 392 Scat Pack Challengers. And that's just on the base tune. I'm excited to see what it gains from dyno tuning!