Well everything is gathered so I might as well post my parts list. As I mentioned before this is everything with the exception of the conversion U-joint and any other odds and ends that I happened to forget. Think I pretty much covered it all, though. I'll update if anything doesn't work or needs modification when it goes in, it'll be a few weeks yet before I'm ready to schedule the swap.
1.) 4L80E transmission from '97 C3500 ($500)
2.) Transmission crossmember from '97 C3500 ($50)
3.) ACDelco 15767858 transmission mount ($32)
4.) PCM tune from Black Bear Performance ($15)
5.) Nelson Performance 4L60E to 4L80E conversion harness ($103)
6.) GM Performance 12554824 flexplate ($119)
7.) ACDelco 14088764 flexplate bolts (X6, $13)
8.) ARP 230-7305 torque converter bolts (X6, $23)
9.) ACDelco 15729870 fill tube ($20)
10.) ACDelco 1259475 dipstick seal ($2)
11.) ACDelco 15996922 dipstick (Re-use from 4L60E)
12.) ACDelco 15687274 inspection cover ($27)
13.) TransGo 4L80E-HD2 shift kit ($120)
14.) ACDelco 24210956 filter kit ($32)
15.) ACDelco 15039490 crossmember nuts (X4, $56)
16.) ACDelco 15687110 crossmember bolts (X4, $16)
17.) ACDelco 11516845 transmission mount bolt (X2, $7)
18.) ACDelco 15659699 transmission mount washer M11x30x3 (Discontinued, re-use from 4L60E mount?)
19.) ACDelco 11516754 transmission mount nut ($4)
20.) ACDelco 12337828 inspection cover screws (X4, $3)
21.) Tru-Cool M7B transmission cooler ($63)
22.) Hayden 210 cooler mounting ties ($3)
23.) ACDelco 10-9395 Dexron 6 fluid 14qt (4 gallons, $119)
24.) Koul Tools KTS-6 -6AN hose assembly tool ($30) (Mainly a gadget for my future use)
25.) Russell 630270 50' -6AN hose ($266)
26.) Russell 613165 swivel 90 degree -6AN hose ends (X5, $130)
27.) Russell 610025 straight -6AN hose ends (X1, $8)
28.) Russell 641390 4L80E case to -6AN fittings ($17)
29.) Russell 670153 1/2" NPT to -6AN adapters (X2, $26)
30.) Vibrant Performance 5/8-18 inverted flare to -6AN adapters (X2, $12)
31.) Jodar Performance JOD-444210 multi-size AN wrench ($30) (Another toy for my future enjoyment)
32.) ACDelco 8677743 transmission oil pan gasket ($33)
All told I've got $1879 in parts so far.